Tuesday, May 27, 2025

Truthful Tuesday

 

Today's confession is that occasionally when one of the horses poos while I'm riding, I will forget to go back out and pick it up. I don't leave a muck tub and fork out there because I turnout in the ring. If you've been here for any length of time, you know my rotten animals would dump the bucket and probably stomp it to pieces. 

But, I have come up with a solution! I made myself a poop bracelet, so I can put it on when there's ring poo and then take it off once I've retrieved said poo.

Behold! The Poop Bracelet

Now, I obviously can't leave the bracelet in the ring because previously mentioned rotten animals would probably eat it. So it's not a perfect solution. I have to remember to put it on when I get back in the barn. But I got to test it out today, and it worked! So we'll see. I'll report back on future tests.

Anyone else forget these things? Have a better solution? Let me know if you do!


Thursday, May 22, 2025

Thursday's Threads

 

Outfit Day! I didn't ride today because it's been raining non stop since 9pm yesterday. (That's a full 13 hours at this point.) And the high was only 51 degrees today. I'll ride in the rain... but not when it's this cold! BUT, fear not, as I planned ahead and took outfit photos yesterday. Eros was our model this week. Here's some of what we had on:

Our theme this week was brown and rose gold. I think rose gold's moment is kind of over, but I'm still here for it. So expect to still see it happening over here!

Here's what Eros was wearing this week:

He's still a work in progress, but I really think I see a summer bod starting to show up under that dad bod! 

Bridle: Winner Special
This was my super inexpensive Italian bridle that I actually love. Although, I'm generally not a fan of buckles for the big ends of things. (I like the little hidden hooks personally.) But I make an exception for this one, because the hardware matches the clinchers and that's super fun. 

Saddle: Butet
Saddle Pad: Lettia, embellished by me
Half Pad: Mattes
I really can't believe the difference in how this saddle feels with just the tiniest of shims in the back. It even looks more level. What a relief!

Polos: Catago
I loved that pair of tan Catago wraps so much, I snagged a pair in brown when they were on sale. I'd like to get a black pair soon too. They're on sale at Tack of the Day this weekend, so it could happen!

So that's what Eros was wearing, and here's what I had on:
Yeah. It was cold out yesterday too. I had on this sweater and two layers under it and I kinda wished I'd had a vest too. Funny how quickly we get used to the warm weather!

Helmet: One K
I still long for a premium Samshield in brown. But until that happens, I'm pretty happy with this helmet. 

Sweater: Rock and Roll Cowgirl
I bought this sweater in a different lifetime when I had an office to go to everyday. And then I stopped having that and I never wore it. So instead of letting it sit around, it is now a barn sweater! Maybe not exclusively, but for this week anyway.

Belt: I forget the brand...
I cannot recall the brand on this belt, though I think a few different companies offered something similar. I got this one in a Forelock and Fringe box. Love the rose gold bling!

Breeches: Equiline
I think it was last year that I went on the hunt for new brown and rose gold breeches. I was pretty set on trying to find the ones from Samshield at a better price which proved fruitless. But then I found these Equilines for a reasonable price (from Riders House) and decided they were way cuter than the Samshield ones anyway. I love the details on these!

Boots: Imperial Riding
I think I'm finally admitting defeat on these and will probably sell them. I will replace them with the correct size though! I love the boots! Just not that these are still too tall even with the heel risers in there. They're pretty though! 

And that's it for today! Are you pro or anti rose gold? What about brown? When I was a kid, my barn I grew up riding at had tan and brown as their farm colors which I really wasn't a fan of back then. (How times have changed...) I mean, it was the 80's and 90's when color was everywhere! But my trainer liked dirt colors. Eww. Now that I'm a solidly middle aged woman, I embrace the dirt colors. But I do like my green to brighten them up. 

Wednesday, May 21, 2025

What's Up Wednesday

 


Last week was like one appointment after the next after the next it seemed like. I had the dentist and the eye doctor, while the horses had the vet for the rest of spring shots, the saddle fitter, and then new shoes on Friday. But now that we have all of that taken care of, hopefully we can buckle down and work on fitness and fun things like jumpies! That is of course, assuming mother nature will play nice. We're definitely getting rained out tomorrow, but that's okay. 

So last week was mostly an easy week for all the horses due to mid week shots mostly. They all handled them well, but I like to take it easy on them afterwards for a couple days. I'm also finding that on the days I do chores, I have a lot less... let's call it bandwidth, to really work the horses particularly hard. I certainly have a horse type, and that type is lazy. So it takes a fair amount of energy and effort on my part to get these three in gear. And sometimes I don't have it in me for all three of them. But I was determined to turn over a new leaf this week. It helped knowing we'd have a rain day on Thursday... (Evidently I am also lazy. I guess my horse type and myself are the same.)

I'm having an interesting time with Al lately. I've been trying to put a little more pressure on him because it's really time we start getting back to some real work. I think he's emotionally a lot more stable than he was last year, and he's shown me that he can handle more now. But at the same time, he's been weaning off the omeprazole, which has me hyper-vigilant about his behavior and anxiety. He's been spooky lately, but it's pretty specifically when I'm on him and not the rest of the time. Which was important for me to realize. Because initially I thought he was reverting back to ulcer-y Al. But I realized he's not anxious in his stall. It's mostly in the ring, and I'm able to pinpoint where it's directed. (Which is at the trees. If it's windy, which we've had a lot of wind lately, or if the birdies are playing in the leaves. Birdies are terrifying you guys.) During my ride yesterday, he seemed to be spiraling off the rails, and I finally got fed up. I put myself a little bit in the back seat for when he propped and tried to spin, and I just really kicked him up into the bridle. When he tried to get distracted and spook, I used my voice or the whip to get his attention back. I hated every second of it because I felt like I was being mean. I didn't want to be that trainer we left, ya know? I don't want him to think I'm going to be unfair to him. But I did need him to know that enough was enough and it was time to focus. So when he did the right things, I made sure to praise him. Both verbally and with a pat. And when he did wrong, I made sure to tell him that too. And you know what? We had a pretty productive ride. It's EXHAUSTING having to ride him like that. But my hope is that this is what he needs now, and in a few rides time I'll be able to back off some. I repeated the ride today, and had similar results. We even popped over a few tiny jumps. And you know what was the most interesting part of the ride? Toward the end of it, he was moving forward on his own. Like I asked for trot and he gave me this lovely forward canter! Which I accepted because he never does that. I feel like I often get excited that things are improving with Al only to be let way down again. So I'm not going to assume things are all better and I've cracked the code. If I know anything about Al, it's that what works today might not work tomorrow. But for now, I'm going to celebrate any small win, and we'll see what tomorrow brings when it comes. Or I guess Friday since tomorrow the sky will be falling all day. 

But you know who's the real MVP around here lately? Shiny. She's the best pony ever. I'm starting to think she didn't feel great whilst on the Ventipulmin. Because ever since taking her off she's like a whole new pony. I mean, we still start out with the ridiculous Shiny Shuffle, but who am I to change that? It's her signature. She's done the most jumping of any of them since we got home, and she feels GREAT to the fences. She's really jumping across nicely, and her stride is open without having to gallop. It does still take some work on my part to get the right forward canter, but once we achieve that, the jumps just flow along one after the next. Last year 2' really felt like as big as she wanted to pop over and I don't think I jumped anything bigger than that on her. (Her kiddo did a few times though.) But now? The 2' feels so easy. I imagine we'll pop around 2'3" again very soon, and maybe if I lose a few lbs we could try some 2'6". No worries if we don't though. I just want her to have fun and feel good. 

The newly shimmed half pad is working out great for Eros and his saddle. I should have tried that myself months ago, but his track record with shimming has always been so bad I was afraid. Lesson learned. Try things. He's been a little sassy lately, but I think that's on me and all those easy days he had last week. This week he's been putting in the work. Tuesday he did his first full ride in the Equibands. We've been using them once a week for awhile now, and slowly building up to a full ride. I worry so much about overdoing anything with him since he's pretty delicate. But he handled them fine! And today he came out ready to go, so obviously, he wasn't feeling overworked. Something we've been having a hard time with for the last many, many months, is right bend. And last week I realized that I think I've been the problem all along. Over the weekend, I made a real effort to focus on what my body parts were doing. And you know what? They weren't doing what I thought they were. My upper body is behaving for the most part. Hands are okay. (As okay as my hands can ever be anyway.) But my hips and legs? All sorts of pointing the wrong way. When I made a real conscious effort to push him out with right thigh and turn my hips toward the right, all of a sudden Eros was bending right. Like easily. Evidently I just haven't actually asked him to all these months. If any of you have any good exercises to straighten my hips out, send them my way. I very clearly have a permanent left bend. I think my other horses just ignore that. Props to them! Haha. 

In other news, I got to braid my little gray friend at the winter barn again on Saturday. 

His owner likes fancy braids, so both times I've done this same thing for them. I'll have to see what else is out there that's allowed for dressage so we can mix it up a little. She doesn't mind the regular rolled up braids either, but I think it might be fun to try something different. In hunter world we don't get to do that. 

That's about it from here. If the weather stops being rainy and or windy, I'll try and get Pivo up and running again. Then maybe I'll have some fun media to share and break up this giant wall of text. 


Tuesday, May 20, 2025

Truthful Tuesday

 


Welp, I made a whoopsie. It was bound to happen eventually. My stepmom and I share a Smartpak account, so I do need to pay attention to addresses when placing orders. And I DIDN'T. In my defense, my farm has always been the default, but for some reason it isn't anymore. 

My horses are mostly on meds not supplements (Al excluded...he's on all kinds of stuff) so I have to do a fair amount of scooping powders into grain, despite them all also having Smartpaks for their vitamin E, electrolytes, and their joint supplement. (Listen, I said mostly meds, not entirely!) Since I'm spending a fair amount of time scooping things not available in Smartpaks, I decided to see if it would save money to just go back to ordering individual supplements and stopping the Smartpaks. Looks like I'll be saving about $80 per month doing that, so it was a no brainer. So I did all the math to see how often I'd need the supplements auto shipped (there is a savings for that) and placed my order. It didn't ship for a few days so I went to check on it, and realized I had the wrong address on that order. It was going to go to my stepmom's Florida barn. Ugh. Of course, I noticed this at night and Smartpak no longer has their late night customer service. (The service there is definitely not what it used to be!) So I had to wait until morning to try and get it fixed. 

Now, I checked on the order first thing, and it still wasn't showing as shipped. I waited like a million years to get connected to a human, and then she told me it was already shipped and asked if I could just get someone from the barn to ship it to me. Which... how is that a solution? The cost for someone without a shipping account to send this box which was probably quite large and heavy, from Florida back to CT would be ridiculous. Not to mention, it would be like two weeks before I ever saw it by the time it delivers there, then reships up here. Plus, it's not that barn's problem. The customer service rep didn't want to offer me any other solutions, but thank goodness, I used to work in shipping, so I had a few suggestions. First, they could have it rerouted back to my correct address. So she said she'd call  me back about that. So awhile later she calls me back and says it will be almost $100 to reroute it. I'm very confused by this because the tracking shows the package sitting in Rhode Island. Very close to my address and not at all close to Florida. So I ask, well what's the charge if you just have it returned to you, refund me, and I'll re-place the order. (Honestly, she should have considered all of these options before calling me back the first time, but I'm more than happy to do her job for her since it was in fact my error.) That was only $21. So I said, okay let's do that. Now I assume she'd take the money out of my refund, but no, instead she does a separate order for that charge. Which okay, whatever. But meanwhile, I'm still waiting for this stuff to get back and refunded. What a mess! 

Listen, I know I screwed up. But I also know from working in a similar field that the customer service side of this was terrible. What if I didn't have experience in this area? Maybe my standards are too high based on previous interactions with Smartpak Customer Service. They've always been so great. I'm not mad about being charged for the mistake or anything like that, it was my error and I own it. But the lack of willingness to actually solve the problem... that's frustrating. I'm not sure if the agent was lazy, or just not trained? I dunno. But man. It was like pulling teeth, and it's not fully resolved yet. Has me contemplating switching my business to Farmvet. 

So that's today's confession. I made a booboo and then the universe punished me for it by making me do my own customer service. Ha! Hopefully it will get back to Smartpak tomorrow, and my refund will process quickly. Fingers crossed! Anyone else done something this silly? 

Thursday, May 15, 2025

Thursday's Threads

 

Outfit Day! And I made it fun! Not over the top fun, just the right amount of fun. Shiny is our model today and here's what she had on:

Also enjoy these photos with her fuzzy ears, because I finished clipping her head tonight. She's finally ditched that fur hat she's been sporting!

Bridle: Nunn Finer
Browband: Dark Jewel Designs
Bit: Punk Ponies cheeks and Sweet Billie's mouth
I need to go through my tack again, because I think I have extra bridles that I like more than this one. It looks nice enough, but the leather is meh. 

Saddle: Butet
Saddle Pad: Mattes
I did a second trial ride with Eros' saddle on Shiny today with a different pad set up than I used yesterday. I don't think this saddle will work for her even temporarily. It slides way back as we ride and I feel like I'm getting bounced all over the place in it on her. So she'll be back in her old saddle until I find something that works for her. But hey, it was worth a shot! 

Boots: Punk Ponies
I couldn't get my camera to pick up the colors in these boots. They're color shifting so depending on how the light hits them they're either purple or blue. So fun! 

That's what Shiny was wearing, and here's what I had on:

Bright pants!!! And rainbow boots! See? FUN!

Helmet: Samshield
This helmet officially turns five in December and thus I'm getting all the wears out of it before it's time to retire it. But also, since it's purple now it matches my outfit nicely!

Shirt: Luyaa
I love these shirts from Amazon. They're exactly the same as the TKEQ ones. I imagine they come from the same factory. But these are like $20 or less so I like them better. 

Belt: Handmade by me

I made this belt during the dark times of Covid and I love it so much. Like Shiny's boots, I couldn't get the camera to pick up the colors in the fabric. It's similar to the boot fabric but this one is purple or green depending on which way the light hits it. And the hardware matches Shiny's bit. 

Breeches: Equiline
I don't really wear my fun Equiline's in the winter because they're not warm at all. But now that it's spring time, they're back in rotation! They fit better than they did last year, so that feels nice. Not so stuffed sausage like. Not sure why because I've gained some weight, but whatever, I'll take it!

Boots: Celeris UK
I love these boots so much. They're ridiculously comfortable and so fun! I still can't decide where the rank, but they're definitely near the top. I think the cow ones are still my favorites though.

That's it for today! A little more fun than the last few weeks! Hope you enjoyed!

Wednesday, May 14, 2025

What's Up Wednesday

 


I feel like we're starting to find our groove at home, which is nice. I like a routine so finding that again feels so nice! That said, it doesn't mean we're fully settled into an under saddle routine. But we're getting there! Friday was a rain day, so that interrupted things, and then Sunday was Mother's Day so that put a rush order on horse things that day. But we're plugging along, making deposits in the trust bank with Al (ever important), finding the forward button on Shiny, and I'm not sure what Eros is working on specifically since he's pretty perfect. But he is doing some good work lately. Props to him for that.

I did pop Al and Shiny over a few jumps one day... I can't remember which day though. They jumps were so tiny I didn't even bust out the Pivo. But I'll get to that soon once we're a little further along. I told Eros he has to wait a little longer to start jumping. He's had a little fill in one of his front legs, which I think is nothing, but I want to be sure. So more flatwork for him for awhile! But I might be able to jump some things with Shiny and Al again either Friday or Saturday hopefully. 

We had two appointments today so it was a busy day for the horses. First up was the vet for our second round of spring shots and teeth checks. We also pulled lyme titers for everyone. And I did in fact pull another tick off Shiny while the vet was there. He was thrilled with her body condition and he was also happy with her breathing and that's a relief now that she's off the Ventipulmin. (Thank goodness, that stuff is EXPENSIVE!) For the time being, we don't need an inhaler for her. I'm curious if the issue was something at the other barn she was allergic to specifically or possibly just that it was winter and everything was closed up most of the time. That barn has a pretty low ceiling, so I imagine the allergens just kind of hang in the air more than it would at my place or our previous winter barn which both have very high ceilings. Probably one of those things I'll never know for sure, but I'm just happy she's doing well now. 

Appointment number two was mostly for Eros, but Shiny joined the party at the end. It was (finally!) with our favorite Butet person. I know I've whined about Eros' saddle endlessly for the last several months, and today we finally are getting somewhere with it. I was afraid to shim it because every time I've shimmed something for Eros, he limps. Like three legged, dig a hole, it's all over lame. So our favorite rep took a look at the saddle on him, and was very happy with how it's fitting him. Which I figured was true. He does seem to go well in it. But the problem is that it puts me behind the motion. Our rep was willing to trade out a demo she has if she had one that would solve our problem, but turns out she didn't have anything that would fit him as well. (My luck!) So I humored her, and let her shim our pad and tried it out. And I will always happily eat my words when I'm wrong. So here it is: Eros felt great with the shims in, and I felt so much more balanced. A very easy fix. I was told though, that if I decided in a few weeks that it's not working, we'll revisit trying something else. She has a pretty constant flow of inventory so she may have something better in the future. But for now, I think we're on the right track. And I'm happy to not break in another saddle! 

The most interesting turn of events was with Shiny. She's a lot smaller than she used to be, and I had a feeling that Al's saddle was pretty close to fitting her. Turns out, I wasn't completely wrong about that. His is close, but too curvy and the panels are too wide for her in the back of the saddle. But in a shocking turn of events, Eros' saddle is actually closer. I rode her in it tonight, and it felt a lot better than her's does currently. But it's not perfect. I plan to try it with a different pad set up tomorrow and see how that is. I don't think it's a permanent solution for them to share a saddle, but it might work until I can luck into something better for her. Eros' saddle is a touch narrow toward the front, and the tree is a little long for her back. But, I now know almost exactly what I need if I were to get her a Butet. (Which would be ideal, but might be tough to find second hand. I do not have the budget for a new one for her.) But I'm not sure how that translates to other brands. I really want something close contact for her with as little bulk as possible. Which is why I'm leaning toward Butet. Plus, I know what panel configuration and tree size/shape that I need. I'm not so familiar with other brands, so it's harder to know what to look for. But this is a good first step anyway. 

Anyway, the horses will probably all be a little sore from their shots tomorrow, so I'm planning an easy day for them. We'll ride, but nothing strenuous. It's supposed to be a little showery too, so that will dictate some of our ride times too. And then hopefully Friday we'll do some jumpies! We'll see how it goes. I never really know with Al if it will be a good day to jump or not. Past me would stick to a schedule and get things done, but present me knows that's not the best way for Al. So I'm learning patience and to listen to my out of the box horse. But we're starting to have more good days than not, so maybe we'll be able to stick to a schedule more often soon. 

I think I already mentioned that trunk cover from my wooden box happens to fit the old boarding barn trunk, which I'm still really excited about. And since that last mention, I've rearranged the tack room a little bit, and am really happy with the new trunk layout.

I worry a little bit about the wooden trunk not having a cover, but if I were to order a new one, it wouldn't match since the ones I have are pretty faded. And I don't really want to order all new covers for everything, that's crazy. So I'll take my chance with the wood one exposed to the elements. I think it's pretty anyway, and it's nice to actually see it now. Much nicer than staring at the navy one with the other place's logo. 

And my last thing to report on, is I finally figured out what to do with Jampy and Rio's giant boxes of ashes. I had a plan years ago, but it wasn't that easy to make happen and so I've been trying to think of a plan B for some time. The ashes have been sitting on my bench in the barn for all these years, leaving pretty much no room for actual sitting on that bench. But that's all changed, because the Jampy/Rio shrine has been constructed:

I've had those wood paintings of them sitting on my dining room table for the last several years. Just waiting for me to do something with them. I'm so happy with this. It's a little weird and shrine-y, but I think it's a nice tribute that they are more than deserving of. The piece of furniture is meant for a mudroom. It came with coat hooks for the top wooden rails, but instead of installing those, I just hung the paintings there. I like that the furniture itself is pretty minimalist, and the wood grain on it with the black hardware matches the ashes boxes perfectly. Obviously their show halters ties the whole thing together. It sits near the entrance to the barn, so it's visible right when you walk in. Perfect place for my boys. 

Oh one last thing... Celeris is finally going to have ambassadors and they're looking for nominations. I think it might be weird to nominate myself, so if you think I'd make a good spokesperson for them, would you mind throwing my name into the hat?? It's a dream of mine! Here's a link to nominate if you feel like I am deserving of it:

Thanks friends!!

And that's really it from here today. Nothing too crazy going on, but things are good around here. How are you all doing this spring? Plugging along? Planning some shows? Tell me what you're up to in the comments!


Tuesday, May 13, 2025

Truthful Tuesday

 

Guys. I am OUT OF SHAPE. I had no idea. I thought I was doing pretty good fitness wise. But now that the horses are home, my body is a giant pile of exhausted mush by the end of the day. I mean, I'm getting lots of stuff done. Working my way through all the laundry from the winter, reorganized the feed and tack rooms, last week I clipped the pony, and today I cleaned and conditioned all the saddles. Plus you know, riding them all every day, weather permitting. (We've had a few rain days around here, spring time is tough.)

So I guess the tired is earned? But still. I have some fitness to regain. And apparently cleaning stalls is terrible for carpal tunnel? Who knew that? Since the horses came home and I'm doing chores again, my hands fall asleep while I'm sleeping and then very painfully wake themselves up which also wakes me up. Kinda annoying. Any of you have any tips to avoid this? I imagine it's contributing to how tired I am since it's messing with my sleep. Getting old is tough! Better than the alternative though. That's for sure.

Anyway, today's confession is that everything hurts and I'm tired. But it's worth it because things are getting done and I get to have my ponies in my backyard. I imagine my body will adjust soon. Hopefully.